When people get hurt or be taken advantage of, they might take actions to hit ones who hurt them or injury them back, since this could make them feel better that they expressed their feeling of anger or suffering. However, the action of revenge sometimes doesn't make you feel better, instead it leads you to tragedy and make you feel more miserable and depressed.
There's a very perfect example on today Daily News. It said that a man who raped the girl had been punched and chopped for 6 times by the girl's boyfriend. Girl's boyfriend was really upset with the girl's superior, the one who had raped the girl, so he ran to the superior's house to hit the superior. However, his fury of the superior wasn't completely eliminated. After that, he went to the hospital where the superior was located to chop the superior with the knife for 6 times and ran away. Well, 2 days after, he and her girlfriend had commit suicided by sniffing carbon smokes in airtight motel room because of guilts. After their bodies were founded by polices, both's parents were extremely sad and crying. The police denoted sadly that they still had possibility of having probations if they didn't decide to suicide.
According to this upon and actual social news, we can know that sometimes hatreds in your heart can't be too over, or it doesn't make you feel better, instead it leads you to the tragedy that you can't restore. Buddha and Christ both had said that we should forgive people who has guilts, although they made you feel suffer or miserable before. Forgiving is the best way to redeem what you lost.
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